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Is it O.K. for a Christian to defend himself? 

Hello, 

I do not know if this is the right forum for this but I am a recently converted Christian and a martial artist. In this martial arts we don't believe in ANYTHING that would violate Christianity except I don't know if it is ok for a Christian to defend himself or someone else. I know Matthew 5:38 but I can't believe that Christ would command you not to defend yourself. (I do believe it should be for self defense only.) Can you please help me with this dilemma?

Thank you, 
Ted 


Dear Ted: 

I agree that Christians should be able to defend themselves. I know that Christ said to turn the other cheek, but I think that He meant that in the context of going the extra mile for someone in need rather than passively accepting a beating from someone. Jesus walked away or slipped out of the crowd when they wanted to kill Him. Paul claimed his Roman citizenship when they were going to throw him in jail. Paul was lowered out a window in a basket to escape those who wanted to murder him. I think these are examples of "defending oneself" when imminent danger is at hand. They didn't know the martial arts, but David in the Old Testament, certainly defended himself and the nation of Israel when armies tried to destroy them. 
I certainly think that you need to be cautious about your knowledge and skill since you could easily kill someone. I am concerned about the mindset taught about killing and would encourage you to renew your mind according to scripture.  We are to love our enemies and to do good to those who persecute us. The teaching in martial arts probably contradicts this biblical mindset towards people. 
I also am concerned about whether you have been taught any New Age or Eastern religious teachings in your martial arts training. I know that can be the case in some programs. One resource which evaluates marital arts from a christian perspective is: Larson's New Book of Cults by Bob Larson  $10.39

You may want to contact the Christian Maritial Arts Organization
and the Gospel Martial Arts Union as well for more information. Here is a list of Christian Marital Arts links, also. 

Anyway, I am so glad you have found Christ! I hope you are in a solid Bible church and that someone is discipling you. May you grow more and more in the knowledge of Christ. May you discover His presence and power more deeply in your life everyday. If you'd like any recommendations on books to read for growth such as Know What You Believe by Paul Little or look at our resources
page for more suggestions. Let me know if I can be of further  assistance to you. 

God bless you! 
Lynette Hoy, NCC, LCPC

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