Stress:
© copyright 1998 by Lynette
J. Hoy, NCC, LCPC
Stress
is one of our society's greatest dilemmas. We feel it every day...pressure,
strain, tension, sometimes burn-out. What is it that causes stress?
What makes it so prominent today? How can we get out from under
it's heavy load? Stress is that feeling you experience when life
is closing in on you with too many responsibilities, expectations,
personal goals, changes, instabilities and life struggles.
Today
more than anytime in history, we feel stressed-out. Why? Is it the
proliferation of technology? Have we become human computers...with
megabyte capacities and speed accelerations escalating out of control?
Maybe for this and other reasons we've lost our humanity. We've
become human doers rather than human beings. Our souls have grown
empty. Our emotions have been blocked. Our relationships have deteriorated
and our spirits have withered. We no longer have time to love or
be loved. So how do we remedy the situation? How do we learn again
to be human, learn to enjoy life?
I
believe we need to put God back in the
picture. We need to begin with God Who made us to be....in
relationship with Him and others. Who gave us a hunger inside for
Him and His purpose in our lives. We need God. We long for God.
We need God everyday. We are made to know God. We need Him to communicate
with us and us with Him. We need to experience His love. We are
not just computers...taking in information, processing it and spitting
it out. We are people with souls, spirits, emotions, bodies and
intellect. We are made in God's image. Pascal said, "There is a
God-shaped vacuum in the heart of every man". When that vacuum stays
empty we try filling it with sex, alcohol, work, success, pleasure,
fortune, addictions only to be reminded that we are still empty
and feeling even more unfulfilled.
We
need God to fill our hearts and lives. We need His power for living.
Jesus Christ said, "come to me
all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" in
Matt. 11:28. Take time out to know God. Read your Bible. Seek His
face. Read the gospel of John. Think about what Christ has done
for you. Rejoice in your faith. If you are not sure whether you
know Christ personally, ask Him to come into your heart, trust Him
for forgiveness of sins and eternal life. He died for our sins and
has risen from the dead! He said, "I am the resurrection and the
life, he who believes in Me will live." (John 11:25) Read about
How To Have a Personal Relationship with
God and Evidence for Christianity.
Then challenge yourself to drop out of some activities
which are not serving God's purpose and/or may be causing you undue
stress. Take time to connect with Jesus Christ and His family....in
a solid Christian church.
Next,
I would encourage you to look at how to improve
your nutrition, intake of vitamins and increase exercise....all
of which will boost your immune system.
Also,
reprioritizing your life
is important. What activities can you cut down on that aren't
absolutely necessary and take a lot of your energy? It seems
like taking care of yourself and your family are the most important
goals for you now.
Next
look at your life to see how you can get
revitalized. Do you have some activities
which inspire you such as going to church, or being involved in
a support group or doing something which is meaningful or creative?
Reading your Bible will inspire you. Start by reading the
New Testament Gospels. Getting closer to God through
prayer and fellowship in a local, healthy church which teaches the
Bible and that Jesus Christ is Lord and Savior will revitalize your
life! Jesus said, "I have come that you might have life and
have it more abundantly." John 10:10 Growing in a relationship
with Him will bring new hope, energy and perspective into your life.
Also,
get a physical exam to see if
there are any other health problems contributing to your stress
symptoms.
Get support and
a counseling evaluation as well. Please
contact AACC for a referral to
a counseling professional
in your area.
Take
care of yourself by exercising, sleeping 7-8 hours at
night and eating nutritiously. Examine your personal pace of life
with the questions below and check out your stress level with the
inventory also. See what you might need to change. Simplify your
life by starting to do and be what God made you to be. You will
begin to feel more hopeful, more peaceful and encouraged as your
soul and spirit are renewed.
Stress
Inventory
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